Attended marriage of one of my best friends this weekend. It was one of the most important days in his life. We had a good time,shared his happiness and wished him a very happy life ahead but there is one strange feeling.
Deep down the heart there is a sinking feeling that I have lost my friend. One friend who was just a single call away at any time, to share my joys or give advice whenever I needed or console me and cheer me up whenever I was down......... seems to be quite far now. I'll have to think twice or may be more before giving him a call... Is this time of the day ok? will his wife be comfortable with our group or he'll be seen only in friendly dinners.....
when you are single and have a good set of friends,you are at top of the world. Nothing seems to make you happy more than just being with friends and sharing all your joys n sorrows....then one fine day you marry one person of your parent's or your choice(if you are lucky) and your life changes completely. Priorties change and your life revolves around your life partener. Suddenly one person is much more important than all your friends. And this happens with one and all.
I don't know why I am thinking so much about it. May be I am feeling insecure that all my friends are going to be married soon and I'll be left alone. I hope I am lucky enough to find my life partener soon who becomes my best friend so that I come out of my insecurity and my friend is lucky enough to find his bestest friend in his wife.wish u a very happy married life Dost!!!!
:) Very touching and brave and vulnerable!! I dont think many people can say it that honestly.... I can totally identify with the feeling... :) Main ek poem likh baitha tumhare iss jazbe par... puri hone do yahin dalunga...
ReplyDeletei am waiting for the poem :)
ReplyDeletei kno how it feels to lose a fren to a marriage!! but then it would be great if you could be a good fren of their partner too, its hard but not impossible and I intend to do tat for my best buddies..walk an extra mile:)
ReplyDeletePS: here from FlyingHigh's location.
Ya I would try that. It seems difficult as I believe that you can't make friends intentionly. It is just that something clicks and friendships are born :) but again I would try
ReplyDeleteI have been following your blog for quite some time thru FlyingHigh's